Don't Look Back

While the world of commerce may have many different decision-making models to address a variety of complex issues, most of us make our day-to-day decisions on the spur of the moment, often compulsively and occasionally with some degree of regret. I am not referring to whether or not you opt for coffee over tea or wearing a sweater rather than a jacket.

Some of us may struggle over buying an expensive item or taking a holiday, both with the issue of affordability aside. We may also agonize over a verbal or written communication we want to deliver to someone. There are countless other possibilities. If you do find yourself in a bit of a quandary uncertain on what to do or not to do, here’s something that often works for me.

Whatever the issue, make a list of reasons why you should do or say something and a corresponding list of why you should not. Basically, complete a list of encouraging and opposing reasons. This approach can be very helpful in those situations when there’s a high degree of uncertainty. Review the pro’s and con’s and then set the list aside for a day or two. When you revisit the list, satisfy yourself there are no changes to the pro and con reasons. Most of the time, any issues of prior doubt will have been satisfied. Make your decision confident that you have sorted through the variables and proceed, refusing to second guess your decision whatever it may be. When you have provided a thorough consideration of the decision made, any thoughts of regret serve no useful purpose and may simply create more stress or deprive you of happiness. Remember, life is brief, so live it well.